Showing Vulnerability to Your Community: The Ultimate Test of Trust
“Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness.” ― Brené Brown
There’s a ubiquitous idea among community and business leaders—hide your weakness, at any cost.
This approach may work at times if the goal is gaining power, but it’s nearly impossible to be an effective leader of a Community of Practice (CoP) with this philosophy. As my last blog post highlighted, trust is the essential element in any Community of Practice, and the only way to gain the trust of your team is by showing vulnerability.
A few years ago I experienced the truth of this. My husband and I worked with a realtor who promised amazing results after we saw our “dream house” that was clearly beyond our reach. Somewhat worryingly, she told us, “trust me”.
While these words can be oversold by many a person in sales, she really meant it. She went on to describe what was basically a Community of Practice among realtors.